Friday, September 9, 2016

My Vibe. My Tribe.

How true is this? Think about it. What you put out into the world is exactly what you will receive. If you are a grumpy-dumpy-cynical human being, then you will inevitably draw the same kind of people in. Then, you will just stare and insult each other all day every day. Karma, right?

Think about growing up. Your friends were those that liked the same things as you, be it sports, drawing, talking, etc. Why would being a grown up be any different? Now, as an adult, I do have an array of friends. I am blessed to have this. I have friends and aquaintances who all serve certain purposes in my life. All of them are great and fill my soul with what it needs. For these people, I am grateful.

Now, onto my tribe. I love my tribe. I respect my tribe. I NEED my tribe! As a woman who has a hard time asking for help, especially when it comes to my children (mommy guilt, what?), I need this tribe of woman for my sanity more than anything. They should be called my "sanity savers." I truly believe that by being open minded, non-judgmetal, and less cynical has brought to me my tribe of people. I've worked hard at it. I'm still working. Aren't we all? Nobody is perfect. Sometimes a great vent or gossip session feels good and then you move on about your life.

Listen, I'm in my mid-thirties. I definitely know there was a time in my life when I was with some others who weren't the best to feed my soul. It's truly not that they are bad people at all! It's just that our vibes didn't mesh. I sincerely wish "the others" the best in life; happiness, fulfillment, and grace. Now, I'm talking about friends and aquaintances through every stage in my life- not just one. So, don't go scratching your head wondering if I've written you off! Chances are, you are still fondly in my mind and memories, and often thought of warmly, with affection.

I wish you all, beautiful bloggies, a life in which you can find your tribe. Think about the type of people you want to attract, and send out those vibes. Just like in 'Field of Dreams,' "If you build it, they will come."

"People take different roads seeking fulfillment and happiness. Just because they're not on your road doesn't mean they've gotten lost." 
-Dalai Lama

p.s. for those of you who think I've fallen off my rocker. I may have! I'm holding on by a toe. It's still holding onto bad and inappropriate jokes, impatience, and sarcasm pretty damn good.

Thursday, September 1, 2016

Product Review: Coconut Oil

It's back! My formal review on a product that I love (or not). I'm not really into talking negative about stuff, so I will only post bad crap if the things I'm using are truly bad crap...

COCONUT OIL! This is the one I use. I'm sure any of them are fine. I like to read the reviews on Amazon before purchasing. 

I use it for some many purposes! 

cuticle conditioner

WATERPROOF mascara remover: 
for real, yo. It works!


moisturizer (everywhere)

hair mask

wax remover (on body or hard surfacees)

diluting my essential oils

What do you use coconut oil for? I feel like there are so many great things to be had with it! 

Stay class, Bloggies. Have fun today. 

Life with Three

There are days when I don't even fathom the fact that I have three children. Then, something will happen where I totally feel like "mommy." Like this right here:

It's like, "oh! I DO have three children! Well, kids, mommy needs to get her workout on, so into Childcare you go!" 

What do you do for yourself? 

Stay beautiful, Bloggies...

Wednesday, August 31, 2016


Experiences. We all have them. They come in sizes big and small. Some are monumentous, and some can be small. Intimate, quiet, loud, good and bad, experiences are what help us travel through life.

I could write for days about my most joyful and monumentous experiences. I could probably write more about my not so great experiences. I wouldn't want to bore you. 

I am just here to tell you that, yes, my dear friend, life isn't always sunshine and rainbows. Hell, some weeks and days have more grey in them than we care to admit. Sometimes life is consumed with the mundane, worry, sickness, chaotic crap that we don't want to deal with. But, you know what? All of your experiences are for you. Everything is happening in such a way for you to move forward and extend your light to those around you.

Keep experiencing life in all of its forms, Bloggies. Joy will come. 

Tuesday, August 9, 2016

I am Female.

I am female. Here me roar. No, really.  I'm serious. Ok. I'm half serious. We females have a once in a month while grumpiness. You hear me ladies? Can I get a "holla?" It is expected. It is reoccuring. However, it still sucks. I'll call it Pissed-off  Maddening System-overload. My once in a month while gets me every single time. All little life instances annoy me. I can't get over it. It's hard for me to find the happy. Today,  I am thankful for all of my body regardless. Within this inside tension that is, I get to use my body to walk it out furiously, even in this ninety degree weather. I get to bend, stretch, breathe, and stay strong at yoga amongst my inner chaos. For this, I am grateful. Now, I'll try to stop being a little shit and focus on the happy. Lord knows that we can all use a little happy in our lives... and chocolate. I'm wishing you calm during your inner storm and peace throughout your beautiful chaos. Happy Tuesday!